I have done numerous of these blessed ceremonies, from extremely casual with family and friends relaxing on blankets under a beautiful tree in a forest, to the bling of all-star hotels! Some chose to tie the knot legally (which can be privately arranged), whilst others prefer non-legality. No matter the choice, having a ‘non regimenting ceremony’ is most important.

The sermon is non-denominational and deeply spiritual. Unless specified I follow a wedding-type format without the rigidity of religious order, hence even your beloved Christian invites won’t feel perturbed. Some of the service principles include: Numerology, The dynamics of the day, Prayers, Objections, Dynamics of relationships, Topics of guidance, Exchange of vows, Handfast, blessing and exchange of rings, Candle ceremony, Final blessing and prayers.

I welcome you to make this personal by advising me on your preferences and I present the couple with a stylish signed copy of the proceedings for memorabilia.

Like spiritual weddings, these naming ceremonies follows a similar sacrament to that of baptism focusing on the sacred essence of the event opposed to the usual rite of passage.

I welcome personal input for both the service and blessing ritual should you feel incline to. I have done several baptism ceremonies from an elaborate marquee on Umhlanga beach with champis & canapés to more of a traditional chapel sermon.

I present the parents with a stylish signed copy of the proceedings for memorabilia

Being so passionate about the ‘other’ side, although I follow a general format, I keep the message light but meaningful to set the tone for a memorable ‘send-off’.